Don't change. Learn to control your emotions and try to stay away from girls. There is much more to life than girls.
How to stop being a nice guy
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Nov 14, 2023
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rupam44 wrote:
Don't change. Learn to control your emotions and try to stay away from girls. There is much more to life than girls.
dude you are also in the nice guy category
I know 😂 but I don't think I need to change. At times I also feel the same way like you (due to slighty different reasons) but then I realise that being a good human being is important. Being a bad boy might be cool but most of them don't have manners or humanity.
a girl that ends with a "bad boy" means that she liked him more than she liked you. i know it might hurt to read, but its the truth. what you can do, is keep your head up, and realize that you will never have a true relationship with a girl if you have to change your personality to be around her. plus, girls love nice guys. if you just keep at it, eventually you'll find someone that likes you for who you are.
Nov 14, 2023
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And why should we take advice from a man who's been banned multiple times?
This is not General Chess Discussion, please move that to off topic.
Well I don't know if girls are only into bad boys but I'm sure nobody likes a pushover, also how do you pinpoint at being nice or not? perhaps you're just ugly as a blasphemy or your life is in obvious disarray. Maybe you always play Ruy Lopez, which is about the most unattractive thing you can do.
YouEvenLiftBro wrote:
GarbageDealer wrote:
Well I don't know if girls are only into bad boys but I'm sure nobody likes a pushover, also how do you pinpoint at being nice or not? perhaps you're just ugly as a blasphemy or your life is in obvious disarray. Maybe you always play Ruy Lopez, which is about the most unattractive thing you can do.
This is abuse and I have reported you.
That's not abuse, it's genuine concerns, to say girls won't date someone just because you're a nice guy is kinda reductive, maybe you need to work on your appearance for real, maybe you let yourself go and gained more weight than you realize, maybe your hygiene could be better, or your clothes, maybe you are known for not having the best life choices, those things are all valid concerns.
ESPECIALLY if you open with Ruy Lopez
YouEvenLiftBro wrote:
GarbageDealer wrote:
YouEvenLiftBro wrote:
GarbageDealer wrote:
Well I don't know if girls are only into bad boys but I'm sure nobody likes a pushover, also how do you pinpoint at being nice or not? perhaps you're just ugly as a blasphemy or your life is in obvious disarray. Maybe you always play Ruy Lopez, which is about the most unattractive thing you can do.
This is abuse and I have reported you.
That's not abuse, it's genuine concerns, to say girls won't date someone just because you're a nice guy is kinda reductive, maybe you need to work on your appearance for real, maybe you let yourself go and gained more weight than you realize, maybe your hygiene could be better, or your clothes, maybe you are known for not having the best life choices, those things are all valid concerns.
ESPECIALLY if you open with Ruy Lopez
You are 169 in blitz. End of message.
What's wrong? couldn't cope with being wrong and you had to go dig into my profile? I am a casual player and I don't try to improve, what about it?
The irony of you reporting me when you resort to attacking my chess proficiency, hypocrite.
Why are you posting this in a chess forum?!
Nov 14, 2023
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Dekamina wrote:
i am tired of being a nice guy guys,
Its like the bad boy always takes the girl away and the bad boys always gets the most hottest girls in the earth,
also, for some reason, girls loves the bad boiz the most, idk why
I dont wanna be a nice guy anymore, help me please,,,how can i change????
this is your second topic on this chess site. your first was:
https://www.chess.com/forum/view/off-topic/what-does-a-girl-like-most-about-guys-94896111
but perhaps this is your only source of social media interaction - then that's understandable.
you assume:
- you're a nice guy
- bad boys get the girls
and so you want to change to be a bad boy.
what if your assumptions were false? what if you only wanted the hottest (as per your definition) girls? what if ...?
i am tired of being a nice guy guys,
Its like the bad boy always takes the girl away and the bad boys always gets the most hottest girls in the earth,
also, for some reason, girls loves the bad boiz the most, idk why
I dont wanna be a nice guy anymore, help me please,,,how can i change????