I don't have much time to wait 5 minutes because of absurd "punishment". It is not fair and humiliating.
About chess.com

I am sure that there are a lot of sites where players are treated much better. I definitely will not recommend my friends to join this site.
That's one of the nice things about the internet... you can stay, you can go elsewhere or you can whine.

"I don't have much time to wait 5 minutes". Your in luck. Chess.com just purchased the domain name......"Funerals Are Us".

I don't have much time to wait 5 minutes because of absurd "punishment". It is not fair and humiliating.
yes 5 minutes is a long time to wait. it's unfair and humiliating. your conception to birth probably took about 10 months though, but it was all worthwhile since you lived to complain about this 5 minute wait.
I have to say that I am very disappointed in chess.com. I don't think that punishments for not willingness to play with weaker players are fair. I am sure that there are a lot of sites where players are treated much better. I definitely will not recommend my friends to join this site.